Denis Waitley Is ...

more than a best-selling author, speaker, poet and  lyricist...

He has studied and counseled leaders in every field...

- from Apollo astronauts

- to Fortune 500 top executives

- from Olympic gold medalists

- to Super Bowl champions

- from returning POW's

- to heads of state

- from the boardrooms of top multi-national corporations

- to the classrooms of students of all ages and cultures

...and now to our living rooms.

Denis Waitley has painted word pictures of optimism, core values, motivation and resiliency that have become indelible and legendary in their positive impact on society.

What others say about Denis Waitley...

This material is so fresh, so relevant, so beautifully expressed, and so vital to the kind of change we must all undergo to succeed in this whitewater world today.
Stephen Covey, Author
The Seven Habits of Highly Effective People

Denis Waitley's life has placed him in the position of 'the best there is' at getting employees to think and act like owners. It's this simple: Get everybody you can to read and listen to his teachings.
Tom Peters, Co-Author
In Search of Excellence

I have studied and appeared many times through the years with Denis Waitley. My advice is to listen to and learn everything you can from this man.
John Wooden, Former Head Coach, UCLA Basketball

Denis Waitley takes us step-by-step to become more consistent, top level performers in our careers and daily lives.
Roger Staubach, Hall of Fame Quarterback, Dallas Cowboys

Denis Waitley has always been one step ahead of all of us. Denis is a mentor for all of us. This is special.
Pat Riley, Former Head Coach, Miami Heat

A Brilliant wake-up call for individual leadership and personal responsibility. Nothing more urgent than integrity and wisdom in the borderless world, and no one offers better perspective and action steps for successfully managing change than Denis Waitley.
Harvey Mackay, Author
Swim With the Sharks Without Being Eaten Alive

November 3, 2009
Issue 142

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Denis Waitley

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In This Issue.....

1. This Week's Jump-Start
2. The Champion Within Article
3. Seeds of Greatness
4. The Winner's Edge Coaching Tips
5. Plant the Seeds of Greatness with a Denis Waitley Gift Pack!
6. More Information

1. This Week's Jumpstart

Problems Can Be Opportunities in Disguise

One of the most desirable attitudes of a leader is an ability to view problems as opportunities and setbacks as temporary inconveniences. This positive attitude also welcomes change as friendly and is not upset by surprises, even negative ones. How we approach challenges and problems is a crucial aspect of our decision making process, whether in business or in our personal lives. In companies and environments in which criticism, pessimism, cynicism and motivation by fear prevail, an attitude develops that leads to avoiding failure at all costs. The trouble with failure avoidance is that it’s simultaneously avoidance of success, which depends on big risks.

Innovation and creativity are impossible when people are in fear of being penalized for failure.

Early experience often teaches that failure is to be avoided at all costs. This begins in childhood, when we encounter the first “No!!” It grows like a weed when we are criticized by our parents, other family members, our teachers and our peers. It leads to associating ourselves with our mistakes, and to a self-image of clumsiness and awkwardness. Not wanting to be criticized or rejected, many adults also seek security rather than risk looking foolish or appearing awkward. They quietly ride with the system, not rocking the boat.

All lasting success in life is laced with problems and misfortunes which require creativity and innovation. Winners turn stumbling blocks into steppingstones.

In the 1920s, when Ernest Hemingway was working hard to perfect his craft, he lost a suitcase containing all his manuscripts. The devastated Hemingway couldn’t conceive of redoing his work. He could think only of the months he’d devoted to his arduous writing—and for nothing, he was now convinced.

But when he lamented his loss to poet Ezra Pound, Pound called it a stroke of luck. Pound assured Hemingway that when he rewrote the stories, he would forget the weak parts and only the best material would reappear. Instead of framing the event in disappointment, Pound cast it in the light of opportunity. Hemingway did rewrite the stories, and the rest, as they say, is history.

This week, concentrate on framing your challenges as “opportunities to grow” rather than “disappointments and problems.”

—Denis Waitley

2. The Champion Within Article

A Compelling "Why" by Denis Waitley
(excerpted from The Psychology of Motivation)

I have a suitcase for you. In that suitcase there is $1 million in cash. The suitcase is sitting in a building that is about an hour’s drive from where you are now.

There is one catch, however. If you are even one second late, our deal is off, and you will not get a dime. No exceptions! With that in mind, what time would you like to leave?

Most people would respond to that scenario by saying that they would leave right now. Wouldn’t you?

So off you go. You jump into your car and start driving for the building. You are excited and are already starting to plan how you are going to spend your million dollars. Then, suddenly, the traffic comes to a complete stop. You turn on the radio and find that there has been a series of freak accidents between you and the building and there is no way to get there!

Now what would you do? Would you give up and go back home? Or would you get out of your car and walk, run, hire a helicopter, or find some other way of getting to the building on time?

Now let’s suppose for a minute that you are driving to an appointment at your dentist’s office. The traffic again comes to a stop. Amazingly, there have been freak accidents between you and your dentist’s office. What would you do then? Probably give up, go home and reschedule!

What is the difference between these two situations? It all comes down to why. If the why is big enough; the how is usually not a problem. This compelling why is connected to your personal objectives, mission statement or magnificent obsessions. It is the basis of your motivational support beam. Truly motivated people are able to identify and tap into the power of a compelling why in everything they do.

—Denis Waitley

Denis Waitley has studied, counseled and trained leaders in virtually every field including Apollo astronauts, Olympic gold medalists, Super Bowl champions, returning POW's, heads of state and Fortune 500 top executives.

Denis is recognized as a world class speaker and author and has traveled the globe sharing success ideas and strategies to thousands of companies the past 25 years. To book Dr. Waitley to speak for your company or to be part of your upcoming Regional or National Convention send an email to speaker@deniswaitley.com or call 877-929-0439 and ask for Hilary.

3. Seeds of Greatness

Seeds of Confidence: Ask and Listen

It is better to earn the trust and respect of one of your children than to gain notoriety and adulation of the masses.

If you must speak, ask a question.

Unless what you say benefits the other person, don’t say it.

It’s not what I think that counts, nor is it what you think that counts. It’s what I think you think and what you think I think that really counts.

No one listens to a person operating out of self-interest alone.

Sin has many tools, but a lie is the handle that fits them all.

If you attack another person’s beliefs, you are creating an enemy.

Moderation in temper is always a virtue. Moderation in principle is always a vice.

Emperors are overthrown. Empowerers are revered.

Before you state your case, gather the evidence, especially what motivates the other person.

Marriage is not total agreement. It is looking in the same direction together.

Listening without bias or distraction is the greatest value you can pay another person.

—Denis Waitley

4. The Winner's Edge Coaching Tips

Here's a proven technique for overcoming the tendency to procrastinate:

If what you are putting off involves other people, consult with them. Your reasons for delaying action may be imaginary. Lack of communication often turns molehills into mountains.

—Denis Waitley

5. Plant the Seeds of Greatness with a Denis Waitley Gift Pack!

Described by his peers as “the poet laureate” of modern-day philosophers, Denis Waitley has over the course of more than 40 years inspired, informed and enlightened millions of people. His hot-selling books have become popular items for those wanting to give the wonderful gift of personal development.

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