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March 26, 2008
Issue 101
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In This Issue.....
1. This Week's Jumpstart
2. Champion Within Article
3. Seeds of Greatness
4. Winner's Edge Coaching Tips
5. Featured Product of the Week
6. More Information
1. This Week's Jumpstart
Life is a participation sport, not a spectator sport. We have become a society of overfed, undernourished couch potatoes. Maybe it's because I'm reaching the autumn of my life that I'm much more conscious of being active and healthy instead of sedentary and overweight. Do you think the next generation will be called "Baby Blubbers" instead of Baby Boomers?
A cartoon I saw recently, showed a pudgy neighbor kid knocking on his friend's front door, asking his friend's mom: "Can Johnnie come out and eat?" And not so many years ago it was can he come out and play.
This week, pass up the fast food junk food, and put some high octane, nutritious food in your tank.
-- Denis Waitley
2. The Champion Within Article
Seeing is Believing, or Is It? by Denis Waitley
When your eyes are open, you see the world that lies outside yourself. You see the items of the room you're in, the people, and the view of the landscape through the window. You take for granted that the objects are real and separate from yourself.
However, successful individuals see the act of achieving in advance -- vivid, multi-dimensional, clear. Champions know that "What you see, is who you'll be."
When you close your eyes, images and thoughts flow through your mind. You may review memories of past events, or preview future possibilities. You can daydream about what may be or what might have been, and your imagination will take you beyond the limits of space and time. Most people attach little importance to these inner visions. They may seem pleasantly irrelevant, or uncomfortably at odds with the accepted external reality.
If you're like most people, you grew up with the idea that "Seeing is Believing." In other words, you need to physically see something with your own eyes to believe that it's real.
I know many successful individuals who live this way.
But there's an attitude that suggests, "Before you can see it, you have to believe it." This premise holds that our belief system is so powerful that thoughts can actually cause things to happen in the physical world.
I also know many successful individuals who live according to this notion of reality.
So which concept is nearer the truth? Do you have to see it before you believe it, or believe before you can see it? The answer is: both are basically true. If you can see something in your mind's eye, and you imagine it over and over again, you will begin to believe it is really there in substance. As a result, your actions, both physical and mental, will move to bring about in reality the image you are visualizing.
During my university years at the U. S. Naval Academy at Annapolis, I underwent training in aircraft recognition. All of us midshipmen sat at one end of a hall while silhouettes of American and foreign military aircraft were flashed on a screen at speeds similar to combat situations. We were supposed to write down the numerical designations and names of the planes, such as A-4, F-ll-F, F-4, MIG-21, and so forth. But the task became more difficult each week, because they kept adding more planes, scrambling the order, and speeding up the projection.
Finally, it got ridiculous, because the images were going by faster than an MTV music video so that most of us saw only a blur, and some didn't see anything. I began to see planes that weren't even invented yet.
When it came time for the final exam, I didn't know for certain which planes I was seeing. I wrote down hunches, intuitions, and reflex responses. But when the test results were announced, virtually everyone had scored a perfect 100 percent. We had seen the planes, even if we didn't necessarily believe it. For me, that test proved that images can be stored and retained, unconsciously, at incredible speeds. And those stored images, when recalled, can enhance performance.
What about the thousands of flickering images we see on a TV, computer or movie screen? What about commercials? Do we have to believe the products really do all those amazing things before we buy them? Do viewers have to think that violent scenes in movies and TV are actually occurring in real life for there to be a negative effect on their behavior? Many people believe that violent fantasy has no impact on their lives whatsoever, because they think they're too intelligent to be swayed by it.
Well, I've got news for them. Whatever you see or experience, real or imagined, consciously or subliminally, when repeated vividly over and over, does affect your behavior, and definitely can influence you to buy a product or buy into a lifestyle, good or bad. Your attitude and beliefs are, quite simply, functions of what you see day in and day out. Information can be taken in almost unnoticed. You won't react to it until later, and you still won't be aware of what lies behind your response. In other words, what you see really is what you get, regardless of whether you know it or not.
You don't need to be watching slides of airplanes, or TV shows, or music videos, video games, or commercials. You can be just lying down, or commuting to work, or walking through a park, and by seeing from within, in your mind's eye, you can change your life.
By rehashing fears and problems, you can make yourself depressed. As a result you can botch a business deal, hurt a relationship, or lower your performance. By forecasting a gloomy outcome in your mind's eye, you can act as your own witch doctor and practice a modern-day kind of voodoo that will fulfill your negative prediction with uncanny accuracy.
On the other hand, by replaying in your mind's eye the best game you ever played, you can repeat that best game again, when the stakes are even higher and the pressure is on. And by mentally pre-playing the best game you've ever imagined, you can set the stage for a world-class performance. This "instant replay" and "instant pre-play" applies to anything from a successful sales call or athletic event to the effective motivation of your teammates and children.
Choose your role models and inputs carefully. Your attitudes and beliefs are the software programs driving you every day on life's journey.
Denis Waitley
Denis Waitley has studied, counseled and trained leaders in virtually every field including Apollo astronauts, Olympic gold medalists, Super Bowl champions, returning POW's, heads of state and Fortune 500 top executives.
Denis is recognized as a world class speaker and author and has traveled the globe sharing success ideas and strategies to thousands of companies the past 25 years. To book Dr. Waitley to speak for your company or to be part of your upcoming Regional or National Convention send an email to speaker@deniswaitley.com or call 877-929-0439 and ask for Hilary.
3. Seeds of Greatness by Denis Waitley
BELIEF,
(Excerpted from Denis' book,
Safari to the Soul, Chapter Nine, page 121)
Belief as a positive force is the promise of realizing things hoped for and unseen.
As a negative force, it is the premonition of our deepest fears and unseen darkness. (Many people lead lives of quiet desperation, having most of their 365 nights each year spent in anxiety as I had on my first safari night in my tent.)
There's no such thing as an absence of faith; it's always one kind or another --- optimism, or cynicism and despair.
4. The Winner's Edge Coaching Tips
This week's coaching tip is simple and life-changing...
Don't make your problems the centerpiece of your conversation. Talk positively about your life and the progress you're trying to make. Be aware of any negative thinking, and take notice of how often you complain. When you hear yourself criticize someone -- and this includes self-criticism -- find a way to be helpful instead of critical. -- DW
5. Featured Product of the Week
One moment. That's all it takes...
It's true. One moment of inspiration can change a life, change the world.
The publisher of the all-new SUCCESS magazine - the premier personal development magazine that recently re-launched - sent this very beautiful reminder to me of this principle in an email recently.
In this email was a link to an inspirational movie on the defining moments in our lives.
http://www.SUCCESS.com/definingmoments
I was truly moved by its stirring words and breathtaking images and struck by how it relates to the principles of achievement and success that are at the heart of the mission of SUCCESS magazine.
In fact, I was so moved that I want to share it with you right away as I know you'll enjoy the beauty of its simple yet inspiring message.
It only takes a few minutes to watch, and it's time I know you'll consider well-spent. I sure do. Please share it with family, friends, co-workers or anyone you feel might benefit from its awesome message.
I'm also pleased to let you know that the beautiful book which inspired the movie is available to you absolutely FREE with a special SUCCESS magazine subscription offer. See the special offer at the end of the movie.
Follow the link below to experience this awe-inspiring movie.
http://www.SUCCESS.com/definingmoments
Denis Waitley
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